Thanks
to Michael Hosking & Graeme Boltwood for contributing the following:
What would you do?
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.
After
extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
"When not interfered with by
outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet
my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot
understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of
things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by
the query. The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like
Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an
opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes,
in the way other people treat that child." Then he told the following
story:
Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?"
Shay's
father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay
on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were
allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging
and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his
handicaps.
Shay's father approached
one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not
expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and a few boys
nodded approval, why not? So he took matters into his own hands and
said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth
inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to
bat in the ninth inning."
Shay struggled over to
the team's bench, put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his
father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys
saw the father's joy at his son being accepted.
In the bottom of the
eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by
three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and
played in right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was
obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning
from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom of the
ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the
bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was
scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they
let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was
given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible
because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much
less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the
plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside
for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball
in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact.
The first pitch came and
Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps
forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in,
Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the
pitcher.
The game would now be
over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have
easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been
out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the
pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out
of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams
started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his
life had Shay ever ran that far but he made it to first base.
He scampered down the
baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second,
run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards
second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base.
By the time Shay started
towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest
guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for
the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman
for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions, and he too,
intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's
head.
Shay ran toward second
base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases
toward home. All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way
Shay."
As Shay reached second
base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the
direction of third base, shouting, "Run to third! Shay, run to
third."
As Shay rounded third,
the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet,
screaming, "Shay, run home!"
Shay ran to home, stepped
on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam"
and won the game for his team.
"That day," said the
father softly, with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from
both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this
world."
Shay didn't make it to
another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being
the hero making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his
mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
AND, NOW A LITTLE
FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY:
We all send thousands of
jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes
to sending messages about life choices, people think twice about
sharing. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through
cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often
suppressed in our schools and workplaces.
If you're thinking about
forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting
out the people on your address list that aren't the "appropriate"
ones to receive this type of message.
Well, the person who sent
you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have
thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the
"natural order of things."
So many seemingly trivial
interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do we pass
along a little spark of love and humanity, or do we pass up that
opportunity to brighten the day of those with us the least able, and
leave the world a little bit colder in the process?
A wise man once said
every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate
amongst them.
You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2. Forward
May your day be a 'Shay
Day,' sunny today & always!